diff --git a/chat/conversations.ts b/chat/conversations.ts
index ad40e11..148ebc9 100644
--- a/chat/conversations.ts
+++ b/chat/conversations.ts
@@ -690,7 +690,10 @@ export async function testSmartFilterForPrivateMessage(fromChar: Character.Chara
 
                     await withNeutralVisibilityPrivateConversation(
                       fromChar,
-                      async(p) => core.logs.logMessage(p, logMessage)
+                      async(p) => {
+                        // core.logs.logMessage(p, logMessage)
+                        await p.addMessage(logMessage);
+                      }
                     );
                 }
               }
@@ -703,7 +706,7 @@ export async function testSmartFilterForPrivateMessage(fromChar: Character.Chara
         core.state.settings.risingFilter.hidePrivateMessages &&
         firstTime // subsequent messages bypass this filter on purpose
     ) {
-        if (core.state.settings.logMessages && originalMessage) {
+        if (core.state.settings.logMessages && originalMessage && firstTime) {
             await withNeutralVisibilityPrivateConversation(
               fromChar,
               async(p) => core.logs.logMessage(p, originalMessage)
diff --git a/learn/cache-manager.ts b/learn/cache-manager.ts
index 2816d7e..6a6f15c 100644
--- a/learn/cache-manager.ts
+++ b/learn/cache-manager.ts
@@ -40,6 +40,8 @@ export class CacheManager {
     // @ts-ignore
     private _isVue = true;
 
+    private readonly startTime = new Date();
+
     static readonly PROFILE_QUERY_DELAY = 400; //1 * 1000;
 
     adCache: AdCache = new AdCache();
@@ -156,10 +158,15 @@ export class CacheManager {
       if (char && char.status !== 'offline') {
         const conv = core.conversations.getPrivate(char, true);
 
-        if (conv && conv.messages.length > 0 && Date.now() - _.last(conv.messages)!.time.getTime() < 3 * 60 * 1000) {
-          const allMessagesFromThem = _.every(conv.messages, (m) => ('sender' in m)  && m.sender.name === conv.character.name);
+        if (conv && conv.messages.length > 0 && Date.now() - _.last(conv.messages)!.time.getTime() < 5 * 60 * 1000) {
+          const sessionMessages = _.filter(conv.messages, (m) => m.time.getTime() >= this.startTime.getTime());
 
-          if (allMessagesFromThem) {
+          const allMessagesFromThem = _.every(
+            sessionMessages,
+            (m) => ('sender' in m)  && m.sender.name === conv.character.name
+          );
+
+          if (sessionMessages.length > 0 && allMessagesFromThem) {
             await testSmartFilterForPrivateMessage(char);
           }
         }
diff --git a/learn/matcher-types.ts b/learn/matcher-types.ts
index 6d33519..7c767c3 100644
--- a/learn/matcher-types.ts
+++ b/learn/matcher-types.ts
@@ -729,28 +729,28 @@ export const kinkMatchWeights = {
 export const kinkMatchScoreMap = {
     favorite: {
         favorite: 1,
-        yes: 0.5,
-        maybe: -0.65,
-        no: -1.5
+        yes: 0.35,
+        maybe: -0.35,
+        no: -1
     },
 
     yes: {
-        favorite: 0.5,
-        yes: 0.5,
-        maybe: -0.25,
-        no: -0.5
+        favorite: 0.35,
+        yes: 0.35,
+        maybe: -0.125,
+        no: -0.35
     },
 
     maybe: {
-        favorite: -0.5,
-        yes: -0.25,
+        favorite: -0.35,
+        yes: -0.125,
         maybe: 0,
         no: 0
     },
 
     no: {
-        favorite: -1.5,
-        yes: -0.65,
+        favorite: -1,
+        yes: -0.35,
         maybe: 0,
         no: 0
     }
diff --git a/learn/matcher.ts b/learn/matcher.ts
index 5465688..174d857 100644
--- a/learn/matcher.ts
+++ b/learn/matcher.ts
@@ -10,7 +10,8 @@ import anyAscii from 'any-ascii';
 import { Store } from '../site/character_page/data_store';
 
 import {
-    BodyType, bodyTypeKinkMapping,
+    BodyType,
+    bodyTypeKinkMapping,
     fchatGenderMap,
     FurryPreference,
     Gender,
@@ -29,7 +30,10 @@ import {
     nonAnthroSpecies,
     Orientation,
     Position,
-    PostLengthPreference, postLengthPreferenceMapping, postLengthPreferenceScoreMapping, Scoring,
+    PostLengthPreference,
+    postLengthPreferenceMapping,
+    postLengthPreferenceScoreMapping,
+    Scoring,
     Species,
     SpeciesMap,
     speciesMapping,
@@ -614,6 +618,10 @@ export class Matcher {
 
         log.debug('report.score.kink', this.them.name, this.you.name, scores, weighted);
 
+        if (scores.favorite.count + scores.yes.count + scores.maybe.count + scores.no.count < 10) {
+            return new Score(Scoring.NEUTRAL);
+        }
+
         if (weighted === 0) {
             return new Score(Scoring.NEUTRAL);
         }